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What to Do When Your Kids Don’t Eat What's in Their Lunchbox: Strategies for Success

It can be disheartening to open your child's lunchbox and find it almost untouched, especially when you’ve carefully packed it with nutritious options. This scenario is common among parents and can be a source of stress and frustration. Fortunately, there are several strategies you can employ to increase the likelihood that your child will enjoy and eat the food you pack. Here are some practical tips to help turn that full lunchbox into an empty one by the end of the day.

1. Work on Acceptance of New Foods at Home

Before introducing new foods into your child's lunchbox, it’s crucial to ensure they are familiar with and accepting of these foods at home. The goal is to create a positive association with the new food in a safe and controlled environment. Here’s how you can do this effectively:

1.1. Eat Together

Let your child see you eating the new food. Children often mimic their parents’ behaviors, so if they see you enjoying a particular food, they may be more inclined to try it themselves. However, it’s important not to pressure them to mimic you. Instead, show them you enjoy these foods in low-pressure environments. For example, sit next to them while they are watching a movie and eat carrots or another new food yourself. Don’t offer them any of what you’re eating; just let them see you enjoying it. Sometimes, children will express curiosity and want to try the food on their own when they see you enjoying it without any direct pressure.

1.2. Involve Them in Meal Prep

Invite your child to help with meal preparation. If they assist in washing vegetables, arranging fruits, or even cooking, they may develop a greater interest in trying the food. This hands-on involvement can make them feel more invested in the meal and more willing to taste it.

1.3. Gradual Introduction

Introduce new foods gradually. For instance, try blending spinach into their favorite pancake recipe to make green pancakes. Turning a new and potentially boring food into a fun and creative dish can make it more appealing. Engage with your child in this cooking process to create a positive association with the new food. By making the preparation enjoyable and turning it into a bonding experience, your child may become more excited about trying the new food.

1.4. Positive Reinforcement

Praise your child when they try new foods, even if they only take a small bite. Positive reinforcement can encourage them to be more adventurous with their eating. Avoid forcing them to eat new foods, as this can create negative associations.

1.5. Create a Safe Environment

Remember that children often feel safer trying new foods at home where they are in a familiar environment. They might be more hesitant to try new things at school due to the unfamiliar setting and social pressures. By introducing and enjoying new foods at home first, you help them feel more comfortable and brave about trying these foods in the school setting. Your presence and encouragement at home can build their confidence to try new things even when they’re away from home.

2. Communicate and Collaborate

Effective communication with your child about their food preferences can lead to better outcomes. Here’s how to make the most of these discussions:

2.1. Observe and Inquire

When your child comes home with a full lunchbox, gently ask them about the foods they didn’t eat. For example, you could say, “I noticed you didn’t eat your carrots today. Do you have any ideas on how we could make them more enjoyable? Maybe some ranch dressing would help. Do you want to try some ranch dressing on it with me?” This approach shows that you value their opinion and are willing to make changes based on their preferences.

2.2. Offer Choices

Involve your child in the decision-making process for their lunchbox. Let them choose between two or three options for their lunch. For instance, ask if they would prefer apple slices or a banana, or if they would like ranch dressing with their carrots. Providing choices gives them a sense of control and can increase their willingness to eat what’s packed.

2.3. Experiment with Flavors

If your child is not eating certain foods, consider adding dips or sauces that might make them more appealing. For example, try offering ranch dressing, hummus, or a yogurt-based dip with vegetables. Sometimes a simple addition can make a big difference.

3. Focus on Fresh and Wholesome Foods

Pre-packaged snacks and foods can be convenient, but they often contain added sugars, unhealthy fats, and preservatives that may not be the best choice for your child’s diet. Here’s how to prioritize fresh and wholesome foods:

3.1. Stock Your Pantry Wisely

Instead of filling your pantry with pre-packaged snacks, opt for wholesome, nutritious options. Keep a variety of fresh fruits, vegetables, whole grains, and lean proteins on hand. Fresh foods provide essential nutrients and can be more satisfying than processed alternatives.

3.2. Make Nutritional Choices Easy

If you approve of all the items in your pantry, you won’t have to worry about what your child picks for their lunch. Make it easy for them to choose healthy options by having a selection of nutritious foods available. This approach encourages them to make better choices without feeling restricted.

3.3. Prepare Simple, Nutritious Meals

Focus on preparing simple and nutritious meals that your child will enjoy. Consider making sandwiches with whole-grain bread, lean meats, and plenty of vegetables. You can also include easy-to-eat items like fruit slices, yogurt, and nuts.

4. Create a Routine

Establishing a routine around lunch can help your child become accustomed to eating the foods you pack. Here’s how to build a successful lunchtime routine:

4.1. Consistent Schedule

Stick to a consistent schedule for packing and eating lunch. This routine helps your child understand when and what to expect at lunchtime. Consistency can also help them develop better eating habits.

4.2. Encourage Healthy Habits

Teach your child about the benefits of healthy eating by associating specific foods with positive outcomes. For instance, explain that “carrots help you see better,” “apples make your heart strong,” and “yellow bell peppers help you heal cuts.” These simple explanations can make the concept of healthy eating more relatable and exciting for them.

4.3. Make Lunchtime Fun

Add a fun element to lunchtime to make it more enjoyable for your child. Use cookie cutters to create fun shapes with sandwiches or arrange fruits and vegetables into colorful patterns. You can also use fun food picks or colorful containers to make the lunchbox visually appealing. Making lunchtime fun and attractive can encourage your child to eat more of what’s packed and look forward to their meal.

5. Download the Little Lunches App

If you’re looking for additional support with planning your child’s school lunchboxes, download the Little Lunches app. Our app offers personalized meal plans and educational resources tailored to your child’s dietary needs. With access to weekly meal plans created by our team of clinical dietitians, a weekly grocery list, and optional grocery delivery via Instacart or Walmart, you’ll have all the tools you need to make lunchtime a success. Additionally, The Little Lunches app provides access to hundreds of recipes every week to keep meals fresh and exciting.

For more guidance and support, explore the Little Lunches app and take the first step towards making your child’s lunchbox both nutritious and enjoyable.

By Little Lunches

4 months ago